We no longer carry gold, acacia wood, or animal skins to a physical tent. Today, under the New Covenant, you are the temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19). The global Body of Christ is God’s dwelling place. As New Testament Christians, we are completely freed from the rigid legalism of a forced percentage, but the standard of the heart has been elevated even higher. If we pan through the New Testament for gold, we find three timeless principles of kingdom giving: 1. Cheerful Giving Under grace, God does not look at the size of the check; He looks at the condition of the heart behind it. He loves a cheerful giver (2 Corinthians 9:7). Think of the poor widow in Mark 12. In terms of a line-item budget, her two copper mites accomplished virtually nothing. But Jesus stopped everything to point her out because she gave out of her poverty, putting her whole livelihood into the treasury. 2. Liberal Giving When we give today, we are directly funding the advancement of the Gospel, the care of the saints, and the building of God’s spiritual kingdom. Paul commends the Philippians for their liberal giving, calling their financial support a "sweet-smelling aroma, an acceptable sacrifice, well-pleasing to God" (Philippians 4:18). 3. Faithful Giving God has always rewarded faith. The Old Testament principle of the Firstfruits meant giving to God first and trusting Him to multiply the rest. The New Testament reinforces this beautifully: God treats our giving like a seed. As 2 Corinthians 9:6 reminds us, "He who sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and he who sows bountifully will also reap bountifully." We don't give to get rich, but we give knowing that the Ultimate Provider will always multiply our seed so we can continue to be generous. A Word on Leadership and Accountability Once we consecrate our offerings to the Lord, we must trust our leaders to spend them wisely. Scripture is filled with severe warnings for leaders who abuse holy funds: Eli’s sons were guilty of extortion, theft and deception (I Samuel 2-4). Joash and the priests took the money and neglected the repairs (II Kings 12, II Chronicles 24). The high priest, Eliashib, leased temple storage rooms to the Ammonites (Nehemiah 13:4-9). The Jewish leaders and soldiers had turned the outer courts into a Den of Thieves (Matthew 21, Mark 11, John 2). The priests and elders who led the Sanhedrin were abusing temple funds. They are the ones who gave 30 pieces of silver to Judas (Matthew 26-27, Mark 14, Luke 22) Those same leaders encouraged the murder of Jesus to keep Him quiet about the corruption of the Jewish leadership (John 5:16-18, 7:1-25, 8:58-59, 11:47-53). The chief priests and elders bribed the soldiers to lie about the resurrection (Matthew 28:11-15) and spread a false narrative about the apostles stealing the body. Leaders will face a strict judgment for how they manage God's house. But our responsibility remains clear: we are accountable for our giving; they are accountable for the stewardship. The Ultimate Gift Every act of giving, every tithe, and every sacrifice in the Old Testament was ultimately a signpost pointing forward to a single moment in human history. It pointed to the moment when God held absolutely nothing back, giving His very best for us: "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son..." — John 3:16 God wants your heart before He ever wants your money. If your heart has been moved by the story of Jesus, the response isn't financial—it's personal. Do you believe? Will you turn away from sin? Confess His name, and surrender your life completely by being baptized for the remission of your sins. Give Him your heart today. You are loved. Ray Reynolds #ReynoldsRap #ReclaimingHope #PeachtreePress #Jesus #RayReynolds #MistyReynolds #lifecoaching #inspiration #encourage #positive #rayreynoldsrap #reclaiminghopeministry #Christianity #summerdale #churchofchrist #bible #authentic #Christian #giving #positive #practical #community #gifts #gettingtoknowyourBible #gospel #contribution #offering #30DaysofGiving #loveoffering #layaside #layby #give

If you are new to the blogs, I want to extend a warm, heartfelt welcome to you. We are truly excited about the wonderful support for our ministry, and it is our sincere hope that you will be deeply blessed by our encouragement. These blogs (and related material) have been a tremendous labor of love. The True Definition of a Bloom When first sitting down to gather thoughts on this topic, it seemed natural to look up the formal definition of the word bloom. Most of us immediately think of a literal flower bloom—something new, fresh, vibrant, and radiantly beautiful. For many, it might bring to mind those lovely, delicate garden flowers that we try so hard to cultivate, even if we feel we lack the "green thumb" required to grow them successfully. However, the dictionary provides a depth to this word that goes far beyond surface aesthetics. The definition that stands out most prominently is the verb form of bloom: to mature into achievement of one's potential; to flourish in excellence; to shine out or glow; to become more apparent or fully expressed. While we often associate blooming with youthfulness, novelty, or a sudden burst of freshness, the deeper meaning points directly to a patient, intentional process toward maturity. Aren't we all in a continuous process of maturing? Regardless of our age, day by day, week by week, month by month, and year by year, we are being carefully molded and shaped into our present-day selves. Like flowers, we must navigate the changing seasons of life. Transitioning between these seasons is a biblical certainty—as the writer of Ecclesiastes beautifully reminds us—but navigating those shifts can often be an intense challenge. Human nature drives us to control the numerous variables around us, hoping to dictate the environment that shapes us. Yet, the reality is that we rarely get to choose the conditions. A flower seed does not select its soil type, it cannot control the amount of fertilizer it receives, and it has no say over whether it experiences an abundance or a scarcity of water. Similarly, as people, we cannot fully control our environments or circumstances, no matter how desperately we try. Sometimes, despite our best efforts, deepest intentions, and careful planning, we simply have to resolve to grow and bloom exactly where we are, in whatever situation or circumstance we find ourselves. The Biblical Pattern of Faithfulness When we look into the pages of Scripture, we find numerous instances where circumstances were far from ideal. The individuals involved could never have foreseen the magnificent outcomes God was orchestrating behind the scenes. We see this vividly in the life of Joseph, who was betrayed and sold into slavery by his own brothers. In the depths of that Egyptian dungeon, he surely could never have imagined that he would one day stand as a powerful leader, holding the authority to save and sustain the very family that abandoned him. We see it in Esther, who was unexpectedly thrust into a royal position as Queen of Persia. When a terrifying and dangerous decree arose threatening her people, she had to summon immense bravery and absolute faith in God, guided by the timely wisdom of her uncle Mordecai: "For if you remain completely silent at this time, relief and deliverance will arise for the Jews from another place, but you and your father’s house will perish. Yet who knows whether you have come to the kingdom for such a time as this?" Esther 4:14 (NKJV) The Inspiring Journey of Ruth Perhaps one of the most poignant examples of blooming in harsh soil is found in the story of Ruth. To appreciate her journey, we must look at her story in a nutshell. The narrative begins with a family from Bethlehem—Elimelech, his wife Naomi, and their two sons. Driven by a severe famine in their homeland, they migrated to the country of Moab. Historically and spiritually, Moab was a dark and difficult place to live. The Moabites originated from an ancestral lineage born out of incest, settling near the Dead Sea in close proximity to the remnants of Sodom and Gomorrah. It was a pagan nation practicing false religions, filled with wicked customs, and harboring historical animosity toward the Jewish people. It was not a place where a follower of the true God would naturally choose to plant roots. While living in this spiritual wilderness, tragedy struck. Elimelech passed away, leaving Naomi alone with her two sons. In time, the sons married local Moabite women, Orpah and Ruth. They lived there for about ten years until a second wave of profound grief hit: both of Naomi's sons died. Naomi, Orpah, and Ruth were left entirely alone as vulnerable widows in a hostile land. Overwhelmed by loss, Naomi decided to leave Moab and return to her homeland of Bethlehem, having heard that the Lord had visited His people by giving them bread. Out of deep care for her daughters-in-law, Naomi urged Orpah and Ruth to go back to their own mothers' houses, wishing them a chance to find security, new husbands, and a future. The scriptures tell us that the women wept aloud at this crossroads. Naomi laid out the stark reality in Ruth 1:11-13, explaining that she was far too old to have a husband, and even if she were to marry immediately and bear sons, it would be impossible for Orpah and Ruth to restrain themselves and wait for those infants to grow into manhood. Naomi wanted to completely free them from her own dire, sorrowful circumstances. While Orpah tearfully kissed her mother-in-law goodbye and returned to her people, Ruth clung to her with fierce devotion, uttering some of the most beautiful words of commitment ever recorded: "Entreat me not to leave you, or to turn back from following after you; for wherever you go, I will go; and wherever you lodge, I will lodge; your people shall be my people, and your God, my God. Where you die, I will die, and there will I be buried. The Lord do so to me, and more also, if anything but death parts you and me." Ruth 1:16-17 (NKJV) Consider the immense weight of Ruth's decision. Naomi was returning to a hometown where she would have to explain why she left in the first place, carrying the heavy stigma of her sons marrying foreign women from a despised country. Naomi was elderly and impoverished; she was not technically Ruth's responsibility. Ruth had every cultural right to return to her family in Moab, find a new husband, build a comfortable life, and secure her own future. Instead, out of pure, sacrificial love, she chose to care for Naomi at her own expense. It was an incredibly risky endeavor. For a young, foreign widow from an enemy nation to walk into Bethlehem created a scenario that, humanly speaking, was unlikely to end well. Traveling with an elderly widow was hardly a strategy for finding a spouse, and given her background, it was highly improbable that any respectable local man would view Ruth as "wife material." Yet, chapter two reveals the beautiful turning point. Ruth went to work in the harsh, exhausting conditions of the harvest fields simply to forage for food, demonstrating a quiet, relentless dedication to providing for Naomi. It was through this very display of quiet faithfulness and integrity that Ruth caught the attention of Boaz, a man of great wealth and a close relative of Elimelech. Boaz observed her selfless actions and noted how she had left her own father, mother, and native land to care for a grieving widow. To fast-forward through this short but monumentally important book, Boaz stepped forward as the kinsman-redeemer. He bought back the estate of Elimelech and his deceased sons, and took Ruth to be his wife to preserve the family line. "So Boaz took Ruth and she became his wife; and when he went in to her, the Lord gave her conception, and she bore a son." Ruth 4:13 (NKJV) That son was named Obed. Obed became the father of Jesse, and Jesse became the father of King David. Who could have imagined that Ruth—through simple acts of goodness, daily faithfulness, and unwavering dedication in the midst of extreme worry, heartache, and severe hardship— would be placed directly into the earthly lineage of Jesus Christ? She bloomed spectacularly in the most unlikely soil. Our Own Stories: When Plans Shatter Just like Ruth, every single one of us has our own ideas, dreams, and meticulously mapped-out plans for the future. We sketch out how our careers, marriages, and families ought to look within the boundaries of our lives. Looking back at my own early story, I had definite, structured plans for the life I wanted to build. I was blessed to grow up in a peaceful, Christian home with loving parents who modeled commitment daily, recently celebrating 57 years of marriage. The foundational importance of marriage, family, and spiritual devotion was deeply ingrained in me. I was a textbook "rule-follower"—a trait that remains with me to this day. I earned good grades, played sports, joined clubs, and was deeply active in my church youth group. Following high school, I attended college and earned a Bachelor of Arts in English. Realizing I wasn't entirely certain how to apply that degree in the corporate world, I took the next logical step and applied to law school at the University of Alabama. Three years later, I became a practicing attorney. While it didn't take long to realize that corporate law was not my true, soul-deep calling, it was a respectable way to make a living and ensure the bills were paid. Right on schedule, a year later, I was married. Four years after that, I became a mother to twin boys. They instantly became my entire world. But life rarely follows our perfectly printed scripts. Just two years later, my life plan was completely shattered: I found myself a single mother of two toddler boys. It was an agonizing, intensely painful chapter. Becoming a single parent was never, even for a moment, a part of my life plan. Yet, that became my concrete reality and my defining season for the next fifteen years. Was I happy about it? Not in the slightest. Was it what I had so carefully envisioned? Absolutely not. Was it complicated and messy? Beyond measure. Was it painful? Yes, with a deep, raw ache that you can only truly understand if you have walked through those valley depths yourself. A Shared Heartache Looking around at our church family, I know that so many sitting in the pews have suffered in deeply parallel ways. You have felt the sting of life-altering setbacks. Many of you have walked through the valley of the shadow of death, losing spouses, children, or precious grandchildren. Some have endured the agonizing fracturing of a divorce or faced devastating financial ruin. It is an inescapable reality of a broken world that trials will come. If you haven't experienced them yet, hold on—storms are a certainty of the human experience. Yet, in the midst of the storm, we must anchor ourselves to an unshakeable truth: Our God is fundamentally good. He will not forsake us. He loves us fiercely, and He actively blesses us even in the harshest winter seasons. He sees every tear and feels every ounce of our profound disappointment. He understands the heavy frustration of the "waiting rooms" of life, where we pray fervently for relief and wonder if our voices are simply bouncing off the ceiling. My story did not conclude with the painful divorce of 2006. For over a decade, my entire focus was poured into raising those two little boys—painfully watching them navigate the emotional reality of not having a father invested daily in their home. I worked a job that provided for our material needs but left me unfulfilled professionally. During those long years, I convinced myself that romance, marriage, and deep mutual love were things I would simply never experience again. I closed that door entirely, never considering remarriage, and did not go on a single date for over ten years. Time moved on, and those two little toddlers are now just a month away from graduating high school. Through the thousands of hours, days, and weeks of wrestling with difficulty, loneliness, and heavy guilt, I learned the art of spiritual survival. It is a survival story that I am now uniquely equipped to share with others who are hurting. God has allowed my past pain to become a comfort for those currently enduring the raw, helpless frustration I once knew so well. I have witnessed God's relentless faithfulness firsthand. I have learned that a fulfilling life does not require the fulfillment of our perfect plans, because our plans are inherently flawed. God's plans are perfect. Beauty from Ashes: Meeting Ray A few years ago, a gentleman walked through the doors of our church and placed his congregation membership here. While many in the church knew him, he was a total stranger to me. My twin boys actually recognized him because he had served as their camp counselor for several years at our area Christian camp, GCBC. When I first crossed paths with him, I didn't see a potential future; I simply saw a deeply broken brother in Christ who was desperately in need of spiritual encouragement. Sensing a strong prompt from the Holy Spirit, I stepped out of my comfort zone, approached this stranger, and volunteered my own story. I told him everything. I shared about the devastating end of my marriage, and how my journey toward healing began literally face-down on my closet floor with tears streaming into the carpet, entirely convinced that my life would never be okay again. To this day, I can still picture those exact carpet fibers because I was completely broken on that floor. Survival seemed like an impossibility. My children would grow up in a divided home, stripped of the memory of a mother and father building a life together under one roof. The collateral damage had rippled out to my parents, my grandparents, and my extended family. My perfectly organized life plan had vanished in a matter of weeks. But God used that painful vulnerability to build a bridge. That broken stranger quickly became a treasured friend. In time, he became my absolute best friend, and eventually, the great love of my life: my husband. When I met Ray, he truly believed his own life was effectively over. On that very first day, I looked at him and promised him that he would be okay—that he would step into a season where he would truly smile again. He chose to step out on absolute faith and trust that word. Fast forward through months of prayer, growth, and healing, and those same twin boys, at 17 years old, lovingly walked me down the aisle of this very church to the melody of "God Blessed the Broken Road." While human impatience makes me wish I had met Ray much earlier in life, the words of that song ring with absolute theological truth: it was all part of a much grander, providential plan coming to fruition. We are constantly being molded and refined by the trials of life. Because we live in a fallen world, life is undeniably tough. I will never stand here and promise that every Christian receives a neat, earthly fairytale ending. Even our beautiful new beginning has required hard work, patience, and intentional grace as we navigated blending teenage boys into a unified family after they had endured broken circumstances beyond their choice. Furthermore, within the last few years, I have been diagnosed with multiple autoimmune diseases and must navigate chronic physical pain on a daily basis. Earthly life will never offer an environment free of weeds or drought. But every single morning, I am reminded of the greatness of the Sovereign God we serve. "And not only that, but we also glory in tribulations, knowing that tribulation produces perseverance; and perseverance, character; and character, hope." Romans 5:3-4 (NKJV) Trusting the Master Gardener Life is far from perfect. Our personal plans—regardless of how flawless, noble, or beautiful we think they are—are ultimately limited by our human sight. God possesses the grander, eternal blueprint. He sees the end from the beginning, and He knows exactly what we need. We must rest in the assurance that we are being deliberately formed, chiseled, and prepared for a glorious future—not just for our remaining days on this earth, but for our citizenship in heaven. As Christians, our ultimate guarantee is a perfect eternity. We may not have all the answers right now, and the truth is, on this side of heaven, we nevervwill. We must lean heavily on our faith to trust the character of our loving Heavenly Father. "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope." Jeremiah 29:11 (NKJV) When your immediate circumstances feel dark, lonely, and entirely hopeless—when life becomes terrifying—please remember with absolute certainty that you are not alone. Intentionally shiftvyour focus off the storm and fix your eyes on God. Trust Him implicitly, because He loves you with an everlasting love. He proved the depth of that love by giving His only begotten Son for your redemption. We are never promised an earthly life completely free of sorrow, conflict, or sickness; sin disrupted that ideal design. We will inevitably face the heartbreak of losing loved ones, the trials of widowhood, the exhausting weights of single parenting, financial distress, or severe health battles. But in the midst of the fire, He promises to hold you close. He will never leave you, nor will He ever forsake you. Like a seed dropped into the earth, you cannot always choose the composition of the soil, the frequency of the rain, or the storms that roll across the horizon. We cannot guarantee earthly wealth, ease, or pain-free living. But we have been given an unshakeable, ironclad promise of eternal salvation by a God who cannot lie. Therefore, let us dig our roots deep into His grace. Let us grow, let us mature, let us bloom with radical excellence, and let us faithfully share the beautiful light of Jesus Christ with a hurting world. Misty This blog is based on a Ladies Day message conducted by the Summerdale Church of Christ Ladies Ministry in 2022.

When God requested a dwelling place among His people in the wilderness, He didn't issue a mandatory imperial tax. Instead, He said to Moses: "From everyone who gives it willingly with his heart you shall take My offering" (Exodus 25:2). What happened next is one of the most stunning displays of raw, uncoerced generosity in human history. A group of newly freed slaves, wandering in a barren desert, brought their gold, silver, fine linens, and precious stones. They gave so much that the builders literally begged Moses to make them stop (Exodus 36:5-6). Have you ever wondered what it would actually cost to build the Tabernacle today? If we pull the raw weights recorded by Ithamar the priest in Exodus 38 and apply modern market values, the numbers are jaw-dropping. 1. Raw Materials (Exodus 25, 35, 38) According to Exodus 38 (NKJV), the exact quantities of metals contributed were carefully recorded by Ithamar the priest. In biblical weight, a talent is roughly 75 pounds, and a shekel is about 0.4 an ounce (almost half an ounce). Using modern market standards, the raw metal value breaks down as follows: Gold: 29 Talents and 730 Shekels · Total Weight: Roughly 2,200 lbs · Estimated Gold Total: $70,000,000 to $85,000,000 Silver: 100 Talents and 1,775 Shekels · Total Weight: Roughly 7,570lbs · Estimated Silver Total: $3,000,000 to $3,500,000 Bronze: 70 Talents and 2,400 Shekels · Total Weight: Roughly 5,325 lbs. · Estimated Bronze Total: $15,000 to $20,000 TOTAL for Precious Metals: $73,000,000 to $87,000,000 2. Structural Components & Coverings (Exodus 26, 36) Acacia Wood: The structures are made of acacia wood and tons of fine-twined Egyptian linen add hundreds of thousands more to the material cost. · 48 upright acacia boards (often translated as "frames" or "planks" - Exodus 26:15–29) · South Side: 20 boards AND the North Side: 20 boards · West Side (The Rear): 6 boards and the Rear Corners: 2 boards (used specifically to reinforce the two back corners) · Total Wall Boards: 48 boards (roughly 15 feet tall by 2.25 feet wide) Connecting Bars: To lock this massive, heavy wooden perimeter into a single, cohesive structure, God commanded the creation of 15 crossbars made of acacia wood (5 bars per side for the North, South, and West walls). · The Gold Overlay: The Bible states that every single one of the 48 boards, along with the 15 crossbars, was completely overlaid with pure gold. · The Silver Sockets: Each of the 48 boards featured two pegs at the bottom that slotted into two massive base sockets made of solid silver. This means there were 96 silver sockets supporting the walls. According to Exodus 38:27, each individual socket weighed exactly one talent of silver (roughly 75 to 100 pounds of silver per socket). Fine Linens: The Rare Dyes (Tyrian Purple and Blue): The blue, purple, and scarlet threads used in the curtains and priestly garments were dyed using Murex snail glands. In the ancient world, this dye was literally worth its weight in gold because it took thousands of marine snails to dye a single garment. Replicating those massive woven curtains using authentic ancient methods would cost millions of dollars today. TOTAL for the Wood & Linens: $38,000,000 to $45,000,000 3. The Sacred Furniture & Utensils (Exodus 25, 27, 37-38) Think about the items and the utensils that accompany them · The Ark of the Covenant · The Table of Showbread · The Golden Lampstand · The Altar of Incense · The Altar of Burnt Offering · The Bronze Laver TOTAL for the Sacred Furniture & Utensils: $35,000,000 to $50,000,000 4. The Holy Priestly Garments (Exodus 28, 39) The raw materials, and the items within the tabernacle, only scratches the surface. · Think about the garments for all the priests that served the Lord. · The High Priest had 12 Precious Stones on the Breastplate: These were large, flawless, and individually engraved gemstones (including sapphire, diamond, emerald, and onyx). TOTAL for the Holy Priestly Garments: $5,000,000 to $15,000,000 The Grant Total Estimated Modern Value: $150,000,000 to $250,000,000 The Real Miracle The dollar amount is jaw-dropping, but the true power of the stat lies in Exodus 36:5, where the builders tell Moses, "The people bring much more than enough for the service of the work." The real miracle isn't the quarter-billion-dollar valuation; it's where it came from. These people were slaves just months prior. God had caused the Egyptians to look favorably upon them as they left, sending them out with immense wealth. But notice God's providence: decades later, history records that their clothes never wore out, their sandals didn't break, and their feet never swelled in 40 years of walking (Deuteronomy 8:4). They didn't even need those earthly possessions in the desert. God gave them wealth in Egypt just so they would have something beautiful to give back to Him in the wilderness. God often blesses us with resources not to raise our standard of living, but to raise our standard of giving. How are you utilizing the "wealth" He has entrusted to you? You are loved. Ray Reynolds #ReynoldsRap #ReclaimingHope #PeachtreePress #Jesus #RayReynolds #MistyReynolds #lifecoaching #inspiration #encourage #positive #rayreynoldsrap #reclaiminghopeministry #Christianity #summerdale #churchofchrist #bible #authentic #Christian #giving #positive #practical #community #gifts #gettingtoknowyourBible #gospel #contribution #offering #30DaysofGiving #loveoffering #layaside #layby #give

If the tithe was the baseline of mandatory giving in Israel, the sacrificial system was where giving became deeply personal, costly, and descriptive. Long before Jesus walked the earth, every single drop of oil poured out and every animal brought to the altar was a physical shadow pointing toward a spiritual reality. Anchored in Genesis Sacrifice was built into the fabric of humanity's relationship with God right from the beginning. We see altars built by Noah after the flood, Abraham throughout his wanderings, and Jacob at Bethel. These weren't mechanical duties; they were moments of deep surrender, gratitude, and covenant alignment. The 5 Levites offerings In the book of Leviticus, God outlines five specific offerings. Understanding the unique purpose of each one changes how we view generosity today: The Burnt Offering (Leviticus 1) – Total Surrender The entire animal was consumed by fire. Nothing was held back, symbolizing the worshiper's complete devotion and total commitment to God. The Grain Offering (Leviticus 2) – Gratitude A non-blood offering of fine flour, oil, and frankincense. It honored God simply as the provider of daily bread and the harvest. The Peace Offering (Leviticus 3) – Fellowship A voluntary communal meal shared between God, the priest, and the worshiper. It was a beautiful celebration of harmony and thanksgiving. The Sin Offering (Leviticus 4) – Purification Focused on cleansing the individual and the sanctuary from unintentional sins or ceremonial uncleanness. The Trespass/Guilt Offering (Leviticus 5) – Restitution Required when a sin caused a quantifiable loss to God or a neighbor. It uniquely required paying back full damages plus a 20% penalty alongside the sacrifice. TOTAL SURRENDER GRATITUDE FELLOWSHIP [ Burnt Offering ] [ Grain Offering ] [ Peace Offering ] (All consumed) (Daily provider) (Communal meal) Firstfruits and Freewill Beyond these, Israel practiced two beautiful forms of giving that required immense faith: Firstfruits (Bikkurim): Bringing the very first of the harvest to God before knowing how the rest of the crop would turn out. It was an act of raw trust that God would bless the remainder (Proverbs 3:9-10). Freewill Offerings (Nedabah): Completely voluntary gifts given purely out of spontaneous love and affection for God. When we look at this intricate system, we see that God never wanted a flat, unthinking payment. He wanted sacrifices that reflected every shade of the human experience—grief over sin, gratitude for food, and absolute surrender of life. If your giving was categorized by the offerings above, would it look more like a routine "sin offering" or a joyous, voluntary "peace offering"? You are loved. Ray Reynolds #ReynoldsRap #ReclaimingHope #PeachtreePress #Jesus #RayReynolds #MistyReynolds #lifecoaching #inspiration #encourage #positive #rayreynoldsrap #reclaiminghopeministry #Christianity #summerdale #churchofchrist #bible #authentic #Christian #giving #positive #practical #community #gifts #gettingtoknowyourBible #gospel #contribution #offering #30DaysofGiving #loveoffering #layaside #layby #give

We tend to look at giving through a very modern, financial lens. We check our bank accounts, calculate a percentage, and write a check or click a button on a church app. But if we pull back the curtain on Scripture, we quickly discover a profound truth: Giving is not a financial transaction; it is a spiritual diagnostic tool. God does not need our resources. He is the Creator of the universe. What He desires is our hearts. The ultimate paradigm shift happens when we stop viewing giving as a legalistic chore ("I have to give") and begin viewing it as a grace-filled privilege ("I get to give"). To truly understand this New Testament grace, it helps to go "panning for gold" in the Old Testament to see where these concepts began. Tithing Before the Law Many people assume that tithing—giving a tenth of one's income—started with the Law of Moses. However, Scripture reveals that tithing existed long before the Law as an instinctive act of faith, honor, and worship: Cain and Abel (Genesis 4): Brought the very firstfruits of their labor to God. Abraham (Genesis 14): Voluntarily gave a tenth of his spoils to the mysterious priest-king Melchizedek. Jacob (Genesis 28): Vowed a tenth of everything to God after a life-changing encounter at Bethel. A Global Instinct of Honor Fascinatingly, tithing wasn't just an Israelite concept. History shows that ancient cultures across the globe recognized that the first and best belonged to the divine. Ancient records highlight this widespread practice: The Babylonians (2000s BC): Paid tithes to their temple gods centuries before Abraham. The Egyptians (1400s BC): Recorded giving a tithe of their resources to their gods before anyone else touched the harvest. The Greeks & Romans: Consecrated 10% of their crops or war spoils to their deities before paying kings or taxes. The Levitical System When God finally established the Mosaic Law, He formalized this ancient custom into three distinct, mandatory tithes to sustain the community: Tithe Type Scriptural Reference Purpose The Sacred (Priestly) Tithe Leviticus 27:30-32 Supported the Levites and priests who managed worship. The Festival Tithe Deuteronomy 14:22-27 Funded religious feasts and community celebrations. The Poor Tithe Deuteronomy 14:28-29 Distributed every three years to care for widows, orphans, and strangers. The Heart Behind the Math Whether it was an ancient patriarch giving by faith or a Levite giving by law, the core principle never changed: The tithe acknowledges that God is the true owner of everything. When Israel withheld it, God didn't view it as a budget shortfall; He viewed it as a heart issue—famously calling it "robbing God" in Malachi 3. When we give, we aren't funding God's needs; we are aligning our hearts with His ownership. Does your current giving feel more like a legalistic tax or a grateful response to the Owner of all things? You are loved. Ray Reynolds #ReynoldsRap #ReclaimingHope #PeachtreePress #Jesus #RayReynolds #MistyReynolds #lifecoaching #inspiration #encourage #positive #rayreynoldsrap #reclaiminghopeministry #Christianity #summerdale #churchofchrist #bible #authentic #Christian #giving #positive #practical #community #gifts #gettingtoknowyourBible #gospel #contribution #offering #30DaysofGiving #loveoffering #layaside #layby #give

I have heard this statement spoken a hundred times or more during my years in full-time ministry: “I don’t know what I would’ve done if it were not for the church family.” Aren’t you glad to be a part of the family of God? What would we do without our brothers and sisters in Christ? I can honestly say that I would not be where I am today if it were not for the dedicated people who surrounded me and my family. Life is not always easy, and ministry can be extremely difficult. At times, brethren can even be harsh or discouraging. However, the overwhelming majority of people within the church—our true family—have been a tremendous blessing! The Ministry of Burden-Bearing The brothers and sisters we have in Jesus Christ are there to help us when we need them most. In fact, it is our responsibility to serve one another. We are called to lean on each other when we are suffering from a heavy load. Galatians 6:2 says, “Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.” This practice of mutual burden-bearing is essential. We need to lend a helping hand by lifting heavy loads, especially those of God’s family. Often, life presents an "overload" that we simply cannot carry alone. A burden is a weight too heavy for the individual, but it is capable of being shared within the fellowship. In doing this, we satisfy the requirements of Christ. Restoration Through Gentleness Our spiritual family also helps us when we are overtaken by sin. Galatians 6:1 says, “Brethren, if a man is overtaken in any trespass, you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, considering yourself lest you also be tempted.” Our brothers and sisters provide a safe place for confession and healing. As James 5:16 reminds us, “Confess your trespasses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The effective, fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much.” A Culture of Availability We need to be there for one another at all times—not just during a crisis. This means offering a hand, providing advice when a problem arises, and offering prayers for those who are struggling. The family of God is one of the greatest gifts we have because it ensures we are never alone. However, this is a two-way street. While we rely on our brethren, they also need to rely on us. Hebrews 10:24-25 exhorts us: “And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works, not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of some, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching.” When we neglect worship or community, we aren't just missing out ourselves—we are preventing others from leaning on us. The Strength of Shared Resilience There is a unique strength found in shared resilience that cannot be replicated in isolation. When we walk through trials as a community, our collective faith acts as a buffer against despair. Just as a single strand of cord is easily broken but a threefold cord is not quickly torn apart, our individual resolve is fortified by the presence of others. This "communal grit" allows us to persevere through seasons of grief, doubt, or exhaustion that might otherwise overwhelm us. By standing shoulder-to-shoulder, we don't just survive the storm; we grow stronger because of it, proving that God's grace is often delivered through the hands and hearts of the person sitting in the pew next to us. A Call to Peace and Love To sum up this journey of faith, look to the words of the apostle Paul in Colossians 3:12-17. He calls us to put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, and long-suffering. We must bear with one another and forgive one another, just as Christ forgave us. Above all, we must put on love, which is the bond of perfection. Let the peace of God rule in your hearts and let the word of Christ dwell in you richly as you teach and admonish one another in psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs. You are loved. Ray Reynolds #ReynoldsRap #ReclaimingHope #PeachtreePress #RayReynolds #MistyReynolds #lifecoaching #inspiration #encourage #positive #rayreynoldsrap #GTKYB #reclaiminghopeministry #Christianity #summerdale #churchofchrist #bible #authentic #Christian #positive #practical #community #gettingtoknowyourBible #gospel #judgment #authority #family

Understanding the Biblical Pattern: A Defense of Restorationist Leadership in the Church I was blessed with two amazing grandmothers. Both helped raising me and shaping me into the man I am today (Carol Rae Green & Aletta Mae Reynolds). Both grandmothers were faithful members of the Lord's church. Both were converted by their husbands (my grandfathers) early in life. Both read their Bibles, never missed a service, and were wise beyond comprehension. Talented, loving, servant-minded, and a joy to be around. Everything you want to see in a leader. While my brother and I (as teens) were permitted into the "Men's Business Meetings" with our fathers and grandfathers, our mom and grandmothers were given no admittance. It didn't take me long to figure out that no women were allowed in those meetings. Also, no women led in worship, conducted the song leading, served on the table, led public prayer, preached, read Scripture or made announcements. My curiosity on this subject began at an early age, but I didn't have any solid answers about the role of women in the church until I went to International Bible College. Several of our professors were willing to lead discussions on a number of issues. Many of those topics were never preached from the pulpits were I attended. I learned that what I saw as "unwritten rules" were actually church leaders practicing the New Testament pattern. It wasn't tradition, but doctrine. What else had I missed? What more did I have to learn? Much. In our most recent sermon series, we have been deeply moved by the stories of faithful women like Mary Magdalene, Salome, the sisters at Bethany (Mary & Martha), and others. Their devotion to Jesus' ministry and their presence at the cross and the empty tomb are indispensable to the Gospel narrative. However, as we strive to follow a "restorationist" hermeneutic—a desire to strictly follow the patterns found in the New Testament—we must look at the specific roles established for public worship and church governance. Therefore, I want to share seven primary reasons for the practice of male leadership in the church: 1. The Order of Creation "For Adam was formed first, then Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived, fell into transgression." (I Timothy 2:13–14) Theological weight must be given to the sequence of creation. Leadership roles were established with Adam being created first. The headship roles of men are not cultural, but rooted in a "creation order" (Genesis 1-3). The sequence of creation was a deliberate act by God to establish a functional hierarchy in the home (more to follow). By citing Adam’s priority in time, it can be argued that leadership is an inherent design rather than a cultural evolution. Paul’s reference to the Fall in I Timothy suggests that these roles serve as a protective boundary for the church. This "creation order" is a foundational truth that remains constant regardless of changing societal norms. 2. The Direct Command for Silence in Assembly "Let your women keep silent in the churches, for they are not permitted to speak; but they are to be submissive, as the law also says." (I Corinthians 14:34) The instruction to the church at Corinth is a universal rule for formal worship services to ensure order and reverence. This instruction is interpreted as a specific guideline for the formal gathering of the saints to maintain spiritual order. The call for silence is not seen as a comment on a woman’s intelligence or worth, but on the nature of the assembly's structure. Many restorationists view this as a universal mandate intended to prevent confusion during public worship. It emphasizes a posture of submissiveness to the established Word and the order of the service. 3. The Prohibition of Teaching or Exercising Authority "And I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man, but to be in silence." (I Timothy 2:12) Paul not only issues commands for the New Testament church, he defines a boundary regarding the formal instruction of men or holding authority over them within the church leadership. This boundary specifically addresses roles that involve the public instruction of men and the exercise of governing power over the congregation. Limiting the roles of women in leadership has nothing to do with sexism or cultural norms for the first century. The church must adhere to the apostolic pattern established in the early centuries (Acts 2:42). The prohibition is a safeguard to ensure that leadership remains aligned with the examples set by Paul, Timothy and Titus in the churches of the New Testament. Silence in this context should be framed as a form of quiet strength and adherence to God’s designated roles, not neglect or ignorance. 4. The Selection, Example & Pattern of the 12 Apostles "And when it was day, He called His disciples to Himself; and from them He chose twelve whom He also named apostles." (Luke 6:13) While Jesus had many women followers who supported His ministry, when He chose the twelve individuals to hold the primary office of Apostleship (and thereby laying the foundation for the church), He chose twelve men. Although women were the first to witness the resurrection, Jesus specifically chose twelve men to serve as the foundation of the church. This choice is a definitive statement on the nature of the apostolic office and public authority. Jesus broke many cultural taboos, yet He did not deviate from this specific leadership pattern. The selection of the Twelve provides a historical precedent that modern churches seek to replicate in their own governance. Because the apostles were all men (Matthew 10:1-4, Mark 3:13-19, Luke 6:12-16) they selected seven men to serve in the ministry at Jerusalem (Acts 6:1-7). This pattern continues when they began to select future church leaders. 5. The Qualifications for Elders & Deacons "A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, temperate, sober-minded, of good behavior, hospitable, able to teach..." (I Timothy 3:2) There is no clearer standard than to view the selection of early church leaders. Consider the qualifications that must be met for elders and deacons (I Timothy 3:1-13, Titus 1:5-9). All of them were married men. The New Testament lists gender-specific qualifications for those who oversee the church as bishops or elders. The criteria for oversight are viewed as strict requirements (not mere suggestions) for the local church. The specific phrase "husband of one wife" is considered a clear gender-based prerequisite for the office of a bishop. These qualifications ensure that those in authority mirror the biblical model of a domestic leader. Churches that create gender-fluid roles, and alter the qualifications to include women, are changing requirements that undermine the very authority of the New Testament pattern. 6. Male Headship in the Home as a Mirror "For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body." (Ephesians 5:23) The Bible mirrors the structure of the church with the structure of the family. Just as Christ is the Head of the church, the husband is the head of the wife, providing a consistent pattern of leadership. The relationship between a husband and wife is seen as a living illustration of Christ’s relationship with His church. This domestic structure provides the necessary training ground for those who would lead in the house of God. When the home and the church share the same leadership structure, it creates a consistent theological environment for the family. Headship includes sacrificial responsibility, unapologetic accountability, and spiritual provision. The home and the church are both perfectly structured by God's design. He doesn't need our help adapting in to fit culture or the crowd. 7. The Call to Spiritual Submission "Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord." (Ephesians 5:22) Many people have misconceptions about the concept of submission. It is not a sign of weakness. Submission is not about a difference in value or worth, but about a functional arrangement designed by God for the harmony of the body. This reflects a commitment to the divine structure intended from the beginning. Submission is a voluntary alignment with God’s will to ensure the harmony of the body of Christ. This principle acknowledges that while men and women are equal in salvation, they fulfill different functional roles within society and the church. Honoring these roles is viewed as an act of worship and respect for the divine wisdom found in the Scriptures. Following the God-given structure brings the most glory to God. Following the pattern intended from the beginning must not be altered if we seek to please God. Reflecting on the Pattern While we celebrate the vital ministry and influence of women throughout the New Testament, we recognize that Jesus laid out specific patterns for governance. That pattern was commanded, practiced and defended in Scripture. By adhering to these restorationist principles, we seek to honor the divine structure intended for the church assembly. We must not add to or take away from what is already written. Let me be clear... It is essential to understand that adhering to a restorationist pattern for leadership in no way diminishes the intrinsic value or spiritual necessity of women within the body of Christ. These scriptural principles are specifically directed toward the exercise of congregational authority and the formal positions of church governance, such as elders and deacons. Far from silencing the unique gifts of women, this framework honors their vital contributions as teachers, public speakers (ladies classes), and active participants in various ministerial and service roles that do not involve exercising authority over the men of the church or participation in the assembly. The devotion of Mary Magdalene and Salome was foundational to the early church's testimony. The modern church relies on the indispensable wisdom and labor of women to fulfill its mission and reflect the complete image of God’s kingdom. This is also a pattern that should never change. The bottom line is that men and women have God-given, God-blessed, and God-selected roles and patterns. Ultimately, when we align our practice with the blueprint of the New Testament, we find that God’s design does not limit the potential of any believer, but rather provides the perfect structure for the entire body to flourish in its distinct and God-given strength. As we embrace these roles with humility and grace, let us remember that in the kingdom of God, true leadership is never about power, but about the profound responsibility of stewardship. Grandma simply isn't qualified, commanded or permitted to take any authoritative role in the Lord's church. Just because it might be popular, it doesn't make it right. As the saying goes: "God does not call us to be original; He calls us to be faithful." You are loved. 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Most of us are familiar with the "Golden Rule" found in Matthew 7:12, and we recognize the two greatest commandments discussed in Mark 12:28-34. But there is a curious thought interjected at the end of the second command: “Love your neighbor as yourself.” Starting in the Family What does that mean? Clearly, the world needs to see the love of Christ. If you have a hard time showing love to people in the world, or even your enemies, a great place to start practicing is within your church family. We must learn to love our brothers and sisters with the same care and concern we naturally show to ourselves. The Old Testament Foundation This isn't a new concept. In the Old Testament, the Israelites were taught specifically not to harbor hatred. They were told not to hate their brothers in their hearts and to avoid taking vengeance. The standard has always been to treat the "other" with the same dignity we desire. Practical Selflessness Loving yourself isn't about vanity; it’s about the natural instinct we have to feed, clothe, and protect ourselves. When Jesus tells us to love our neighbor "as ourselves," He is calling us to have that same "instinct" for the well-being of others. When a neighbor is hungry, we feel the pangs; when they are hurting, we feel the sting. The Blueprint of Empathy This "as yourself" standard serves as a perfect blueprint for empathy in a fractured society. It forces us to pause and ask, "If I were in their position—facing their specific struggle, grief, or confusion—how would I hope to be treated?" This simple shift in perspective can dissolve prejudice and bridge gaps of misunderstanding. By treating our neighbor’s reputation, needs, and soul as dearly as our own, we move from a life of self-preservation to a life of purposeful service. It is in this selfless exchange that the "Golden Rule" moves from a nice saying to a life-changing reality. You are loved. Ray Reynolds #ReynoldsRap #ReclaimingHope #PeachtreePress #RayReynolds #MistyReynolds #lifecoaching #inspiration #encourage #positive #rayreynoldsrap #GTKYB #reclaiminghopeministry #Christianity #summerdale #churchofchrist #bible #authentic #Christian #positive #practical #community #gettingtoknowyourBible #gospel #judgment #authority #family

There is a growing trend in our modern culture to "sue first and ask questions later." While the legal system exists to maintain order, for the believer, there is a higher law and a more profound conviction at play. When we take a brother or sister in Christ before a secular judge, we aren't just settling a dispute; we are often signaling a failure of faith and a breakdown of the spiritual family. My conviction on this is firm: The courtroom should be the last place a Christian finds themselves when having conflict with another believer. The Commandment of Reconciliation Jesus was incredibly clear about the priority of peace over "winning" a legal battle. In the Sermon on the Mount, He reshapes our understanding of justice: "Agree with your adversary quickly, while you are on the way with him, lest your adversary deliver you to the judge, the judge hand you over to the officer, and you be thrown into prison. Assuredly, I say to you, you will by no means get out of there till you have paid the last penny." (Matthew 5:25-26, NKJV) In Luke 12:57-59, Jesus reiterates this urgency. The message is simple: settle it personally, settle it quickly, and settle it with grace. If we wait for a judge to decide our fate, we have already lost the opportunity for Christian reconciliation. We are removing the Lord, and His church, from the solution. A Shame Before the World Perhaps the most stinging rebuke regarding lawsuits comes from the Apostle Paul in his first letter to the Corinthians. Paul is astonished that believers would seek justice from those who do not share thei same eternal values. He urges us "Don't you dare take it to a secular courtroom! "Dare any of you, having a matter against another, go to law before the unrighteous, and not before the saints? Do you not know that the saints will judge the world? And if the world will be judged by you, are you unworthy to judge the smallest matters?" (I Corinthians 6:1-2, NKJV) Paul goes as far as to say that it is better to be wronged or cheated than to drag the name of Christ through a secular court. When we sue "brethren," we tell the world that the Gospel is not powerful enough to resolve our greed or our pride. We wave the flag of surrender to the enemy! The Divine Order of Conflict Resolution The Bible doesn’t leave us without a process. In Matthew 18:15-17, Jesus outlines a three-step model for restoration: Private Confrontation: Go to them alone. Mediation: Take one or two witnesses. Congregational Support: Tell it to the church (via the eldership). This process is designed to save the soul, not just the bank account. As Proverbs 25:8 warns us: "Do not go hastily to court; for what will you do in the end, when your neighbor has put you to shame?" I know several Christians that have lost multiplied thousands of dollars in court costs and attorney fees. Is that really a good use of the God-given blessings the Lord has granted you? The Weight of Our Responsibility Our conduct within the family—both biological and spiritual—carries eternal consequences. Scripture is relentless in its defense of the vulnerable. To mistreat family, or to neglect the widow and the orphan, is not a minor lapse in judgment; it is a spiritual crisis. The consequences? Hell. Everlasting torment. Why? Because it qualifies as one of the 7 worst sins in the eyes of our God (Proverbs 6:16-19). The New Testament makes it clear: "But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever" (I Timothy 5:8, NKJV). This mirrors the early church's priority in Acts 6:1-7, where leaders were appointed specifically to ensure widows were not neglected. James defines the very core of our walk this way: "Pure and undefiled religion before God and the Father is this: to visit orphans and widows in their affliction, and to keep oneself unspotted from the world" (James 1:27, NKJV). The Old Testament echoes this warning, noting that God Himself is the "Father of the fatherless, a defender of widows" (Psalm 68:5). Isaiah 1:17 commands us to "plead for the widow," while Malachi 3:5 warns that God will be a "swift witness" against those who oppress the widow and the fatherless. To ignore these duties is to risk being lost eternally, as we replace the character of God with the selfishness of the world. Final Thoughts Why am I so passionate about this subject? From 2018-2020 I was forced into the secular courts to settle a bitter divorce and determine custody of two minor children. The total legal expenses were more than $80K. I had to work 4 jobs, take out large personal loans, and max out several credit cards to get me through the worst of it. My primary attorney cost me $67K. Recovery from these deficits took me years to overcome. Mediation failed. Brethren filled the courtroom to pick sides. False information was spread. Lies. Gossip. Damning evidence, including videos and pictures, were laid bare to the court. Private matters were made public. Reputations were ruined. Names were drug through the mud. And for what? A momentary feeling of success? What qualifies as a win when everyone involved looks like a loser? I have wrestled with how God looked down into that courtroom (on several occasions). Over and over and over... He was not glorified. The name of the Lord's church was disgraced. Children of God were humiliated. Money that could have been used for college funds or health care was wasted. Irreparable and unnecessary damage was inflicted upon the kingdom of God. I pray that God will forgive us for allowing the enemy an opportunity to blaspheme (II Samuel 12:14). My one saving grace is that I refused to share any evidence on social media. No doubt the evidence would speak for itself but at what cost? I stayed silent. My character should speak for itself (I Peter 3:16). God is my Defender (Psalm 7:19-12). Before you file that paperwork, or call that attorney, ask yourself: Is my testimony worth more than my settlement? Let us be a people who judge ourselves, so that we may not be judged by the world. Let us settle our differences at the foot of the Cross. May God be with us all. And may He grant us wisdom to live in this world in such a way that it will not keep us from Heaven. You are loved. 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We often find comfort in the familiar. We are commanded by Christ to love one another, especially our own brethren. John 15:12, 17 says, “This is My commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. . . These things I command you, that you love one another.” This sentiment is the bedrock of the church, repeated in Matthew 19:19 and Matthew 22:39. A Radical Command However, Jesus takes this a step further—into territory that challenges our very nature. He tells us to love our enemies. Matthew 5:43-44 says, “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you.” It’s hard enough to love our brethren, but we are commanded to love those who oppose us. Why? Because the world needs more than a “season” of love and forgiveness. We need it every day! The Fulfillment of the Law When Jesus left this earth, the apostles continued to teach this doctrine of sacrificial love. Romans 13:8 reminds us that we owe no one anything except to love one another, for he who loves another has fulfilled the law. Galatians 5:13-15 warns us not to use our liberty as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love to serve one another. If we bite and devour one another, we risk being consumed by one another. This thought is echoed throughout the New Testament (I Thessalonians 3:12, James 2:8, I Peter 1:22). Love as a Witness The love of fellow Christians shows that we are all children of the same Father. We must be willing to go as far as laying down our lives for one another, just as Christ did for us (John 15:13, I John 3:16). But we must also remember that "brother" can refer to any human being (Matthew 25:40). If we only love those who love us, what reward do we have? Even the world does that. Everyone needs to experience the love of God through the way we treat every person we encounter. The Transformation of the Heart To love an enemy is perhaps the ultimate evidence of a heart transformed by grace. It requires us to see past the offense and recognize the image of God in the offender. When we pray for those who spitefully use us, we are not condoning their actions; rather, we are releasing the bitterness that binds us and inviting God’s light into a dark situation. This radical love acts as a mirror, reflecting Christ’s own sacrifice on the cross, where He prayed for those who were crucifying Him. It is through this impossible love that the world truly sees the power of the Gospel. You are loved. Ray Reynolds #ReynoldsRap #ReclaimingHope #PeachtreePress #RayReynolds #MistyReynolds #lifecoaching #inspiration #encourage #positive #rayreynoldsrap #GTKYB #reclaiminghopeministry #Christianity #summerdale #churchofchrist #bible #authentic #Christian #positive #practical #community #gettingtoknowyourBible #gospel #judgment #authority #family

Just imagine what God can do with us when we fully surrender to Him and His will. It is a concept that sounds daunting at first—giving up control—but the Bible promises a beautiful transformation when we do. When we submit to God, He will lift us up (James 4:10). One of the most profound ways He lifts us up is by adopting us into His family. A New Environment for Growth When you are baptized and added to the Body of Christ, you aren’t just joining a religion; you are given a new family. You are officially part of God’s family! The Lord has provided a new environment for you and new people to be around. These helps are given to you in the hope that you will appreciate the love God has for you, His church, and other individuals. This family of God is designed to help you develop a better relationship with other people as well as with God Himself. In this spiritual ecosystem, we find the support, accountability, and love needed to thrive. The Cost and the Reward Living for God sometimes requires difficult choices. Mark 10:29-30 says, “Assuredly, I say to you, there is no one who has left house or brothers or sisters or father or mother or wife or children or lands, for My sake and the gospel’s, who shall not receive a hundredfold now in this time—houses and brothers and sisters and mothers and children and lands, with persecutions—and in the age to come, eternal life.” Jesus emphasized that the real family is the family of God. He spoke candidly about the friction that following Him can sometimes cause within earthly households. In Matthew 10:35-37, He said, “For I have come to ‘set a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law’, and ‘a man’s enemies will be those of his own household.’ He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me.” He made this statement because we may have to choose sometimes between our earthly family and God’s family. It isn’t that we stop loving our biological relatives, but rather that our primary allegiance belongs to the Kingdom. Defining Our True Kinship We see this principle in action during Jesus’ own ministry. “While He was still talking to the multitudes, behold, His mother and brothers stood outside, seeking to speak with Him. Then one said to Him, ‘Look, Your mother and Your brothers are standing outside, seeking to speak with You.’ But He answered and said to the one who told Him, ‘Who is My mother and who are My brothers?’ And He stretched out His hand toward His disciples and said, ‘Here are My mother and My brothers! For whoever does the will of My Father in heaven is My brother and sister and mother’” (Matthew 12:46-50). Jesus clearly states that His family is the family of God. This spiritual bond is deeper than DNA; it is a bond forged in the Spirit and sealed by obedience to the Father. Because of this, we must love and take care of the family of God with the same—or even greater—fervor than we do our own kin. Walking Together in Purpose Beyond the comfort of belonging, being part of God’s family provides us with a shared mission that gives our lives ultimate meaning. In this spiritual family, we are not just siblings; we are co-laborers in the vineyard of the Lord. When we stand together, our diverse gifts unite to reflect the full image of Christ to a broken world. This community serves as a lighthouse, showing those who are lost and lonely that there is a place where they are truly known and truly loved. By walking together in unity, we demonstrate that the power of the Gospel can bridge any gap—social, economic, or cultural—creating a unified front that the world cannot ignore. A Time for Gratitude Take this opportunity today to praise the Lord for your spiritual family. Give thanks for the brothers and sisters who have prayed for you, encouraged you, and walked beside you during your darkest valleys. Remind yourself of the blood of Christ that unites us together as the family of God. You are loved. Ray Reynolds #ReynoldsRap #ReclaimingHope #PeachtreePress #RayReynolds #MistyReynolds #lifecoaching #inspiration #encourage #positive #rayreynoldsrap #GTKYB #reclaiminghopeministry #Christianity #summerdale #churchofchrist #bible #authentic #Christian #positive #practical #community #gettingtoknowyourBible #gospel #judgment #authority #family

When many people think of "ministry," they picture a man in a pulpit or a missionary in a far-off land. They envision someone with a specific degree or a formal title. But in the New Testament, ministry was never intended to be a spectator sport. It wasn’t a performance by a "clergy" for an audience of "laity." Instead, the church was described as a living, breathing body where every single part—no matter how small—had a vital function. I am a member of the church of Christ because I believe in the "priesthood of all believers" (I Peter 2:9). In the Lord’s church, there is no such thing as an "inactive" member who is still in good standing with the Head. We are all called to be active, contributing, and serving. You Are a Necessary Part The apostle Paul used the human body as the ultimate illustration of church involvement. Think about your own body: you might not think about your pinky toe very often, but try walking without it! Every ligament, every muscle, and every organ has a job to do. Paul writes in I Corinthians 12:27: "Now you are the body of Christ, and members individually." He goes on to explain that the eye cannot say to the hand, "I have no need of you." In the same way, the church cannot function at its full potential if the members believe that "someone else" will do the work. Whether you have the talent to lead a prayer, the hospitality to open your home, or the quiet spirit to send a card of encouragement to a shut-in, your contribution is necessary for the health of the whole. The Shift from Miracles to Maturity In the infancy of the church, the Holy Spirit provided miraculous gifts—like speaking in tongues, prophecy, and supernatural healing—to confirm the Word before the New Testament was completed (Mark 16:20). However, the Bible taught that these miraculous gifts were temporary. Paul famously wrote in I Corinthians 13:8: "Love never fails. But whether there are prophecies, they will fail; whether there are tongues, they will cease; whether there is knowledge, it will vanish away." Today, we no longer possess those miraculous "signs," but we possess something even more enduring: talents and providential opportunities. God has gifted every Christian with unique abilities. Some are gifted with the "tongue of the learned" to teach; others are gifted with the "spirit of service" to help the poor. Our task is to take the natural talents God gave us and the spiritual growth we’ve attained and put them to work. The Goal: Edification in Love Why is it so important for every member to be active? It isn't just to "get things done." It is about growth. "...from whom the whole body, joined and knit together by what every joint supplies, according to the effective working by which every part does its share, causes growth of the body for the edifying of itself in love" (Ephesians 4:16). When you do your "share," two things happen: the church grows numerically and spiritually, and you grow. A Christian who does not serve is like a muscle that is never moved; eventually, it withers. Ministry is the "exercise" that keeps our faith strong. Opportunities for Service What does "active ministry" look like in a practical sense? The New Testament gives us a broad canvas: * Benevolence: "Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all, especially to those who are of the household of faith" (Galatians 6:10). This includes visiting the sick, feeding the hungry, and helping those in financial crisis. * Edification: Teaching a Bible class, mentoring a younger Christian, or simply offering a word of comfort to someone who is struggling. * Evangelism: Inviting a neighbor to services, sharing a Bible tract, or hosting a small group study in your home. * Administration: Helping with the upkeep of the building, organizing church events, or assisting the deacons in their various tasks. There is no "small" work in the kingdom. Jesus said that even giving a cup of cold water in His name would not go unrewarded (Matthew 10:42). The beauty of this work is that anyone can serve! Conclusion The church of Christ is not a bus where one person drives and everyone else sits back and enjoys the ride. It is more like a rowing team, where every person must pull their oar in unison to reach the destination. If you are looking for a place where you can be more than just a face in a crowd—a place where your talents are needed and your service is valued—then the church of Christ is for you. We don't just want your "attendance"; we want your partnership in the greatest work on earth. You are loved. Ray Reynolds #ReynoldsRap #ReclaimingHope #PeachtreePress #RayReynolds #MistyReynolds #lifecoaching #inspiration #encourage #positive #rayreynoldsrap #reclaiminghopeministry #Christianity #summerdale #churchofchrist #bible #authentic #Christian #positive #practical #community #gettingtoknowyourBible #gospel #judgment #authority